Wednesday, March 21, 2007
Yea, borrowed Linda's 'The Teenage Girl's Survival Guide, Totally Me'! Definitely is interesting. Let me type something here which is meaningful. It's about BGR, of course.
Will he ever come back? It does happen, but generally it's after you've already moved on emotionally. Many a guy realizes how much he really does love you when he sees that you've living a fabulous life and he's not part of it. [Yea, take for WeiPing's example.] When you've become Ms. Independent again and you're not wasting a second pining for him, he thinks, "Man, she looks good. I wonder if I could get her back."
By the time he rediscovers you, you'll truly have moved on, and can't imagine "going backwards" – which is how a relationship with him will feel. .......... At least with a new guy, you can have a fresh set of problems, right?
If he doesn't come back to you, trust us when we tell you that your feelings for him will fade over time. We know that's difficult to accept – or even believe – at the moment of breakup, but it's true. As lousy as you may feel right now, one day soon you're going to wake up feeling bitter in spite of yourself. A week or two later, you'll realize that 24 whole hours have passed and you haven't thought of him once. That day will turn into a week, which will turn into a month, and before you know it, the entire situation will just be a memory hilariously rendered in your Recovery Scrapbook. [This paragraph is for YOU! YuShuang & Nana =P ]
And of course, you'll find yourself with a new crush soon enough. You'll surprise at yourself, since you vowed never to love again. At first you'll feel a bit guilty, as if you're betraying the memory of your lost love. Don't hesitate for a moment though – there's the cliff and over you go! It's all part of the cycle of love.
[>.< Where's my boy?!]
Yes, it is indeed a girl’s survival guide. Haha. And I won't waste any more time on him! I getting over soon. Very soon. Opps... someone's calling to my Hp! So irritating can. I can't take any calls and the urge of listening is VERY strong. Somemore don't have caller ID. Argh.... When will April come?? Sigh.
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